After a day of chauffeuring, refereeing, housekeeping and so on, it is no wonder that at night you’d rather drift into dreamland then take a roll in the hay. If you and your husband are feeling out of touch, then perhaps it’s time to put your love life back on the front burner.

The daily grind can wear on both of you, but more intimacy will help the two of you take a united front with the kids and whatever else faces you. Since lovemaking is supposed to be about pleasing each other, a healthy dose of passion develops a habit of selfless concern for one another — helping couples feel safe, secure, loved and connected. When you feel more connected with your spouse you’ll be happier in all aspects of life.

This year make Valentine’s Day extra special as are sort of kick-off to a year of renewed passion. To help you celebrate, here are some gift ideas — not for him or for her — but that will bring you both equal pleasures. Enjoy!

	Chocolate Dipped Strawberries. Forget the flowers, this decadent dozen is delicious and has absolutely no thorns. $55 at _blank">chocolatecoveredcompany.com
	“Desserts On Me” Whipped Body Spread. This mouth-watering body cream smells like delectable white chocolate and sweet cherries, and it even tastes yummy. $24 at cakebeauty.com.
	Isabella Oliver Maternity Lingerie. Though you’re expecting, the two of you can still enjoy a hot Valentine’s Day. This seamless lingerie will hug your curves for an ultra-flattering look. Stunningly simple, it covers just enough and defintely flaunts your maternal assets. $30-40 at isabellaoliver.com.
	Lover’s Paint Box. With these edible chocolate paints and a paintbrush in hand, all the two of you need is a little imagination. $35 at uncommondgoods.com.
	Romantic Fortune Cookies. These chocolate covered fortune cookies conceal romantic fortunes — the perfect segway to an after-dinner party for two. $24 at redenvelope.com.

– Bettijo B. Hirschi